09 — Etiquette

Manners, and why they exist

Every rule below protects something specific: a person's working time, a family's front door, a kimono that costs more than a car. Then test yourself.

A maiko far down a lane, seen from a respectful distance from behind, no one following her
AI concept visualKeep your distance. Let her pass.
A narrow private alley between teahouses closed with a low wooden barrier, evening
AI concept visualSome lanes are private. Please do not enter.
01
Do not stop, block or chase a maiko or geiko on the street.

In the evening they are commuting between okiya and ochaya on a tight schedule; the Gion council cited chasing and blocking as reasons for the 2024 alley closure.

02
Never touch a maiko, her kimono or her hair.

Kimono and obi are costly and easily damaged; residents reported torn kimono and a cigarette butt placed in a collar. The hairstyle is set weekly and cannot be fixed on the spot.

03
Do not photograph on the private lanes of Gion-machi Minamigawa; signs warn of a 10,000 yen charge (since October 2019).

In October 2019 the Gion-machi Minamigawa district council placed signs in Japanese, English and Chinese on the private lanes off Hanamikoji after repeated unpermitted photography of geiko and maiko and trespassing. The 10,000 yen is a posted charge by the landowners, not a statutory fine.

04
Do not enter the private alleys in Gion at all (from April 2024); Hanamikoji itself stays open.

In March 2024 the district council announced that from April tourists would be asked to keep out of the private alleys, with the same 10,000 yen notice, and the first no-entry signs went up at Kosode-koji on 29 May 2024. Residents said Gion 'is not a theme park'. Public streets such as Hanamikoji remain open.

05
Do not photograph maiko or geiko on the street. Take photos where they are part of the arrangement.

Asking for permission means stopping someone who is commuting on a tight schedule, and flash at night dazzles a person walking in okobo on stone. Gion Corner's winter shows, booked experiences with a photo time and performances that allow it exist precisely so that photographs need not be taken from people at work.

06
Do not photograph or film inside theatres during a performance.

Gion Corner and the odori theatres prohibit it; Gion Corner offers a photo with a maiko after winter shows instead.

07
Keep voices down and do not linger at ochaya doorways or peer through lattices.

The kagai are residential neighbourhoods and working venues; the 2024 measures were triggered by groups loitering and trespassing into homes.

08
Do not expect to walk into an ochaya; use a performance, an experience operator, or an introduction.

Ichigen-san okotowari is a credit-and-trust system, so a first-timer without an introducer will be politely refused; this is not personal.

09
At an ozashiki or experience, follow the lead of the geiko or maiko: they pour, you receive; join the games; do not ask for personal contact details or after-hours meetings.

They are professional performers at work; the evening is structured as hospitality, not a date.

10
Do not dress as a maiko from a makeover studio and pose in the kagai in ways that mislead others; keep henshin photos to studios, gardens and agreed routes.

Residents' complaints and press coverage in 2024 mentioned costumed visitors adding to congestion around Hanamikoji; the Kyoto City tourism site lists makeover studios as a separate 'experience', not part of the kagai.

Information checked on 2026-09-18

A short manners quiz

Five questions. No score is saved.

1. It is 5:40 pm on Hanamikoji and a maiko walks past you quickly. What do you do?

2. A narrow lane off Hanamikoji has a small sign and a low barrier. Can you go in for a photo of the lanterns?

3. You are booking a 'maiko dinner' online. Which question tells you most about what you will actually get?

4. You are on a public street at night and a maiko is walking by. What is the respectful choice?

5. You would like to see a maiko dance without an introduction to an ochaya. What is the simplest honest option?